what is love?
biggest question of the world..
so, whom do u love ?
whom do you care for?
your answer must be
your boyfriend/girlfriend
your maa/paa
your grand maa /grand paa
your brother /sister
your bestfriend
tell me that one thing you can't live without ?
my answer is OXYGEN.
LOVE is not a need
so, what is love ?
let me give you some typical thoughts of LOVE .
--LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL
---LOVE IS PAIN
---LOVE IS UNDEFINED
--LOVE IS DRUG
---LOVE IS GREATEST GIFT
---LOVE IS FRIENDSHIP
----LOVE IS LUST
--LOVE IS RELIEF
---LOVE IS JUST A WORD
---LOVE IS JUST A GAME
----LOVE IS JUST HORMONAL CHANGES
--LOVE IS LIFE
ETC , ETC
now, let's understand
what exactly the so called LOVE is?
-"LOVE is that beautiful need of a person , whose name only makes you smile "
-"LOVE is that drug of a body . who never consumes lust for your best friend , for whom you feels great and get relief of life"
-LOVE is undefined .it's true.but, the definition of love differs from LOVER TO LOVER .
-"LOVE is not just a feeling , "LOVE IS DIFFERENT WORLD ".which makes you feel that you are not in the same running world ".
-"LOVE is not related to AGE ,FACE,SKIN,GENDER,BODY,FAMILY,RELIGION,MONEY OR ANYTHING". it's all about hearts ( sounds filmy , but its true )
let me try , to make you understand about love in simple spelling way..
L:
LOVE IS LOYAL.
-person should change as per time , but it's not same for LOVE .
-LOVE is best example of loyalty
-there is no chance for mistakes in LOYAL LOVE .
- if you want to check your love is loyal or not , just understand one thing - if your feeling is changing as per time than there is no space for loyalty in LOVE .
ex: you start ignoring - misbehaving with that person after 5 years ,than there is no love.
but, if your feelings are getting more stronger as time goes than you are finally in LOVE .
ex: after being with your partner for 5 years ,now you can't even live without him/her for a few seconds ...
LOVE IS LEGAL
- when you fallen for someone , you never ever wanna do anything wrong in this whole world
- after getting your love , you just wants to be a very good person , as good as you can.
-that is LEGAL LOVE.
- THAT IS BEAUTY OF LOVE .
- that makes you wonderful person , no matter how CHEAP , VULGAR , UNSATISFIED , HURT, BROKEN , WEEK OR OVER ATTITUDE person you used to be in your past.
o:
LOVE IS OPERATION
-"LOVE is operation of two hearts , which is made for each other".
-"whenever you see that person , you thanks god everytime for making that person in your life".
-sometimes operation can't be successful that means there are some fights , talks and misunderstanding in your love-life, but whatever it is , it doesn't matter to you because you don't wanna see your boy/girl unhappy .
- so, you just can't stop yourself to hug him/her after fights .
-"HUGS are beautiful creation of god that makes you realize , you are not alone , someone is always there to join you in everything".
v:
LOVE IS VARIANT
-it is not necessary , that love can be as same as you can see couples in the world.
-there are so many types of love in the world .
UNKNOWN LOVE:
- you don't know the person who she / he is , but you feel for him/her.you secretly follow him/her.you want to be with him/her.atlist once you had dream of him/her.
OLD LOVE:
-sometime realization of your love can be late , but this LOVE is very sweet one .because "the more you take time in realization , feelings must be more strong".
FAMOUS LOVE:
-this happens, when you are so special that LOVE-LIFE is really matters to other people. that's y everyone wants to know more about you and your partner.
SECRET LOVE :
-this is the most common LOVE in this world.you loves someone but your heart is not allowing you to give this news to another heart .
-that's y you can see him/her , talk with him/her , go out with him/her , but you can't hold his/her hand as your partner , you can't can't kiss him/her , but you desperately want that to happen.
LOVE TRIANGLE:
-this is the most typical one
-you love someone but , that SOMEONE loves THIRD PARTY and you hate that fact ( & obviously that third party is most hated person in your life )
-but, that third party also loves very badly to your LOVE .
-so, this should be mess, and it takes more time to get out of it.
E:
LOVE IS EMOTION
- "some people really don't know the meaning of emotion.it really hurts , when you see your partner in pain".
-sometimes hurting is so extreme that you can't control yourself to help your partner in pain , even you are ready to take all his/her pain .
- there is no other thing is greater than emotion.
-"to feel for someone is the best CRIME , you ever want to do in YOUR LIFE ".
-"it's not about how emotional you are , it's about why you are so emotional to that particular person so that you are ready to sacrifices anything "(including yourself).
REALITY OF LOVE
I HAVE NO DOUBTS TO SAY " EVERYBODY IS NOT THAT LUCKY TO GET THEIR LOVE IN LIFE ".
BUT, ITS ABOUT PRIORITIES
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO FEEL BEAUTY OF LIFE , YOU HAVE TO SACRIFICE SO MANY THINGS. BECAUSE SOMETIMES ITS NOT EASY TO GET YOUR LOVE , BUT ITS NOT IMPOSSIBLE ,TOO.
IF YOU ARE ALREADY HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE , BUT YOU ARE MAKING SOMEONE HAPPY BY GIVING A LOVE THAN, YOU ARE WRONG.
LOVE IS NOT ABOUT GIVING AND TAKING "LOVE HAPPENS ITSELF".
JUST YOU HAVE TO CONTACT YOUR HEART AND ASK "IF I M IN LOVE OR NOT"
PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HEART SAYS AND WHAT MIND.
YOU WILL SURELY GONNA ASK "HOW?"
99% WRONG DECISIONS ARE TAKEN BY HEART , BUT 99% RIGHT DECISIONS ARE TAKEN BY MIND.
WHY SO?
HEART JUST WANNA DO SOMETHING BEYOND THE SKY, SOMETHING THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE , IT KNOWS ONLY ONE THING THAT IS "LOVE"
AND WHENEVER IT FINDS LOVE , IT FOLLOWS AND SHARE HAPPINESS ,NO MATTER WHAT YOUR BODY IS FEELING , WHAT YOUR MIND IS TELLING , WHERE YOUR LIFE IS GOING
so, here is my explanation of LOVE . i hope you can understand it .
-now, this is up to you whom do you want to follow heart ya mind ?
- i m going to write another part of this post .
- i m not LOVEGURU or something , THIS IS JUST MY LOVE OF "WRITING".
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